Everyone has a hero. For many of us the world of sports provide faces and names we look up to and often view in a hero-like way. When I was a kid playing Little League Baseball Roberto Clemente was my hero. He played right field for the Pittsburgh Pirates. Being from Pennsylvania made it natural to follow the Pirates and Clemente. I was fortunate enough to watch him play twice. Once against the San Francisco Giants and the next year against the Atlanta Braves. Clemente died tragically in 1972 in a plane crash. His death hit me rather hard at the time. Thankfully I never heard of anything that would have crushed my hero image of him.
But what happens when a hero falls? Every sports fan I know has lifted up some personality into the status of icon only to have his/her vision destroyed due to some failure. At first you shake your head in disbelief. Then you walk w/ disappointment. You almost feel betrayed. In some cases, depending upon what they have done you might feel a bit of disgust! For baseball fans the "steroid era" created a number of fallen heroes. The worship of competition and an apathetic attitude on the part of the commissioner's office led to several great players to cheat. It is hard to respect those athletes who live outside the lines of integrity.
College Football has been the hub of scrutiny and criticism because of players breaking rules and parents bribing schools. Coaches want to win so badly that they try to skirt the system. I hear all the time how the NCAA has too many and confusing rules. That is probably the case. But that does not justify lying to the NCAA. While coaches cannot know everything their players do while off the field some are so out of touch w/ their program that it is beyond pathetic.
Heroes are going to fall. Human beings fail. We are all sinners. I get it! But what is happening to those who we hold up as heroes? It has always happened. Yet, it seems to me that there has been an increase in these incidents. The answer in part is to realize that our heroes may not be worthy of the title. Perhaps we (I include myself) should be more cautious in placing so much faith and admiration in these folks. Just because a guy can shoot a basketball or hit home runs or throw touchdown passes does not make them immortal. Maybe we should be more realistic in our appraisal of people.
At the end of the day let's realize people will always disappoint us. It is not the end of the world. Life goes on.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Trying to Improve
You know it is difficult to improve your life. It is so easy and tempting to go through the motions. Maybe you have a bad habit. Or your attitude toward your job is in the tank. Perhaps you need an attitude adjustment toward your mate. So how do you change?
The first thing you have to do is decide. Once you reach that "come to Jesus moment" then you are ready to proceed. Do not focus on the past! Paul encourages us to reach forward to what lies ahead. (Philippians 3:12-14) Dwelling on the past is a dead end. It will keep you from truly transforming.
Second, you have to examine your inward life. Sometimes the Bible calls it your mind. (Romans 12:1-2; Ephesians 4:23) Other texts talk about the heart. (Romans 6:17) It is that seat of your affections and the place of your thought process. If you are going to change then it must begin here. You can address behavior. There are things you can do that will help but unless you are truly transformed inwardly those "things" will only last for so long.
Third, as you begin to transform inwardly then you will notice behavioral changes in your life. The thought process is transformed and that brings about an inward change that causes your behavior and character to improve. That is why Jesus began the Sermon on the Mount with the Beatitudes. Attitudes direct and impact so much of our lives.
God intends for us to improve ourselves. Complacency is not a Christian quality.
Have a great week!
The first thing you have to do is decide. Once you reach that "come to Jesus moment" then you are ready to proceed. Do not focus on the past! Paul encourages us to reach forward to what lies ahead. (Philippians 3:12-14) Dwelling on the past is a dead end. It will keep you from truly transforming.
Second, you have to examine your inward life. Sometimes the Bible calls it your mind. (Romans 12:1-2; Ephesians 4:23) Other texts talk about the heart. (Romans 6:17) It is that seat of your affections and the place of your thought process. If you are going to change then it must begin here. You can address behavior. There are things you can do that will help but unless you are truly transformed inwardly those "things" will only last for so long.
Third, as you begin to transform inwardly then you will notice behavioral changes in your life. The thought process is transformed and that brings about an inward change that causes your behavior and character to improve. That is why Jesus began the Sermon on the Mount with the Beatitudes. Attitudes direct and impact so much of our lives.
God intends for us to improve ourselves. Complacency is not a Christian quality.
Have a great week!
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
The Switch
Isn't interesting that most people of have an internal switch? Similar to a light switch this internal switch changes a person's attitude, demeanor and actions in a flash. Something is said or done that triggers a reaction that is unanticipated. Perhaps the person becomes angry. Or they go from laughing and talking into a shell of distance. When this happens you think to yourself, "I wonder what happened?" But this dynamic acts very much like a switch.
I have seen it over the years with Christian people. You might think this applies only to those outside the blessing and confines of God's church. But Christians struggle with the internal switch just like others. One day at church a brother corrected a couple of teenagers when the father of one of the teens came around the corner. The two adults argued about what was going on with the teens in the foyer during services. There was nearly a punch thrown. Fortunately the brother who attempted to challenge the teens walked away. Perhaps you have witnessed similar scenes. Maybe you struggle with controlling your inward switch.
I do at times. In certain situations I am severely challenged. My competitive nature is part of the reason why my switch gets thrown. That does not excuse or justify anything that I might say or do. That inward switch stands at the ready. A thought hits my mind and bingo...the switch is thrown! Then I end up saying something I regret. Next I have to apologize. Isn't that fun?! Not really! I was being a little sarcastic. But that is how it happens.
Your spouse, your boss, your best friend, your neighbor each has this internal switch. For some you never know when or what will trigger the internal switch to go off! You say something to your spouse and boom! The switch was triggered and now you spend the remainder of the day in silence because he/she has retreated into a shell. Or you honestly tell your boss what you think about a decision he made and the next thing you know he is yelling at you. At that moment you wish you had not said anything.
My point is a simple one: each of us has an internal switch. At the end of the day we are in charge of the switch. Self-control is something that the Holy Spirit produces in us. (Galatians 5:22-23) God expects us to learn how to control the internal switch. Otherwise you end up hurting others and alienating those you care most about.
I have seen it over the years with Christian people. You might think this applies only to those outside the blessing and confines of God's church. But Christians struggle with the internal switch just like others. One day at church a brother corrected a couple of teenagers when the father of one of the teens came around the corner. The two adults argued about what was going on with the teens in the foyer during services. There was nearly a punch thrown. Fortunately the brother who attempted to challenge the teens walked away. Perhaps you have witnessed similar scenes. Maybe you struggle with controlling your inward switch.
I do at times. In certain situations I am severely challenged. My competitive nature is part of the reason why my switch gets thrown. That does not excuse or justify anything that I might say or do. That inward switch stands at the ready. A thought hits my mind and bingo...the switch is thrown! Then I end up saying something I regret. Next I have to apologize. Isn't that fun?! Not really! I was being a little sarcastic. But that is how it happens.
Your spouse, your boss, your best friend, your neighbor each has this internal switch. For some you never know when or what will trigger the internal switch to go off! You say something to your spouse and boom! The switch was triggered and now you spend the remainder of the day in silence because he/she has retreated into a shell. Or you honestly tell your boss what you think about a decision he made and the next thing you know he is yelling at you. At that moment you wish you had not said anything.
My point is a simple one: each of us has an internal switch. At the end of the day we are in charge of the switch. Self-control is something that the Holy Spirit produces in us. (Galatians 5:22-23) God expects us to learn how to control the internal switch. Otherwise you end up hurting others and alienating those you care most about.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
A Super Bowl Lament
The Steelers lost, the Packers won,
Talk about feeling undone!
Now the talk is about next year,
Which most often brings a tear.
When Big Ben threw the two picks
And Mendy lost the ball on a fumble,
I began to wonder about any more tricks,
About that time I began to feel humble.
When your favorite team loses a Super Bowl
You really don't know what to say
It is kind of like having to clean the toilet bowl,
And standing out in the field baling hay!
But questions continue to linger,
What happened to the D?,
Where was the #7 for the index finger?,
And what happens next year we will have to see?
The only thing I know to do is to tip my cap to the Pack,
And pray that the Steelers regather their steam,
For the dream to the Super Bowl we hope to get back,
So here's to next year with visions for a championship team!
If you are a Steeler fan let's stop the crying,
And get on with cheering, hoping and planning,
Instead of what might have been with all the sighing,
To regain our confidence, optimism and fanning!
One thing is certain as we review the last year,
Steeler fans we will ever be while we live here!
Go Steelers!
Talk about feeling undone!
Now the talk is about next year,
Which most often brings a tear.
When Big Ben threw the two picks
And Mendy lost the ball on a fumble,
I began to wonder about any more tricks,
About that time I began to feel humble.
When your favorite team loses a Super Bowl
You really don't know what to say
It is kind of like having to clean the toilet bowl,
And standing out in the field baling hay!
But questions continue to linger,
What happened to the D?,
Where was the #7 for the index finger?,
And what happens next year we will have to see?
The only thing I know to do is to tip my cap to the Pack,
And pray that the Steelers regather their steam,
For the dream to the Super Bowl we hope to get back,
So here's to next year with visions for a championship team!
If you are a Steeler fan let's stop the crying,
And get on with cheering, hoping and planning,
Instead of what might have been with all the sighing,
To regain our confidence, optimism and fanning!
One thing is certain as we review the last year,
Steeler fans we will ever be while we live here!
Go Steelers!
Thursday, January 13, 2011
A New Year
New Years resolutions, goals and objectives find their way onto our personal agendas. Some of us hope to get back into shape physically. Others want to draw closer to their loved ones. Many seek to improve their careers. Churches review what went right in the past year and how to improve for the new one. Whether it is the goal of losing a few pounds or enriching our families or growing at work a new year brings the opportunity for growth.
Interestingly the apostle Peter's last exhortation was to "grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior." (2 Peter 3:18) His second epistle is filled with the spiritual growth theme. (See 2 Peter 1:5-9) Yet, if you are like me growth becomes a struggle. I lose sight of my goals. After a few weeks we allow the motivation and momentum of the new year slip away. How many times have you started out with good intentions only to end up with few if any resolutions kept? Maybe the problem is our approach. Perhaps we need to take a new tact.
Yesterday (1/12/11) I read from Psalm 67:1-2. The ESV renders those verses as follows. "May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face to shine upon us, that your way may be known on earth saving your power among all nations." More than anything else we need God's gracious hand to bless us. We require His face to shine upon us. Whatever resolution or goal we set forth we must first seek God's hand and help when it comes to accomplishing those. God's face shining upon us is the psalmists poetic way of emphasizing we need the Lord's Presence and power working in our lives. Goals, objectives and resolutions will only be accomplished if God is leading our lives. If we take the "me-first" agenda we will ultimately fail.
Something else we to bear in mind as we approach these issues. "This is the day the Lord has made, let us be glad and rejoice in it." (Psalm 118:24) Seize the day for Christ! Live in the moment! I know those are cliches. But if we pursue every day with same level of vigor and purpose God will surely guide us in the paths of righteousness. Goals and objectives remain just one slice of the pie we call life. They find fulfillment in a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. If goals or resolutions are simply self-improvement devoid of connection to God then they will most likely be short-lived. Live today for Christ. (Philippians 1:21) He is the reason we get out of bed and pursue what lies before us.
To God be the glory!
Interestingly the apostle Peter's last exhortation was to "grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior." (2 Peter 3:18) His second epistle is filled with the spiritual growth theme. (See 2 Peter 1:5-9) Yet, if you are like me growth becomes a struggle. I lose sight of my goals. After a few weeks we allow the motivation and momentum of the new year slip away. How many times have you started out with good intentions only to end up with few if any resolutions kept? Maybe the problem is our approach. Perhaps we need to take a new tact.
Yesterday (1/12/11) I read from Psalm 67:1-2. The ESV renders those verses as follows. "May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face to shine upon us, that your way may be known on earth saving your power among all nations." More than anything else we need God's gracious hand to bless us. We require His face to shine upon us. Whatever resolution or goal we set forth we must first seek God's hand and help when it comes to accomplishing those. God's face shining upon us is the psalmists poetic way of emphasizing we need the Lord's Presence and power working in our lives. Goals, objectives and resolutions will only be accomplished if God is leading our lives. If we take the "me-first" agenda we will ultimately fail.
Something else we to bear in mind as we approach these issues. "This is the day the Lord has made, let us be glad and rejoice in it." (Psalm 118:24) Seize the day for Christ! Live in the moment! I know those are cliches. But if we pursue every day with same level of vigor and purpose God will surely guide us in the paths of righteousness. Goals and objectives remain just one slice of the pie we call life. They find fulfillment in a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. If goals or resolutions are simply self-improvement devoid of connection to God then they will most likely be short-lived. Live today for Christ. (Philippians 1:21) He is the reason we get out of bed and pursue what lies before us.
To God be the glory!
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Christmas Time
The Holidays arrive each year with many of the same challenges, blessings and stressors. Shopping, cooking, decorating and sharing gifts fill the days. Families participate in traditions. The music, decorations, food and dare I suggest, attitudes stand out during this time of year. For the Confer family being together is what we most look forward to. Our traditions include eating cheese fondue Christmas Eve with chocolate fondue for dessert. We eat breakfast made up of leftovers from the night before. Then we open our gifts! Pictures are taken. We laugh and celebrate the season with a great deal of fun. For Christmas lunch/dinner we eat spaghetti, meatballs, fried bread, fried cheese sticks and salad. Also, Debi creates delicious cookies for us to devour. You can see we eat well during Christmas Time.
We watch the old Christmas classics including Its a Wonderful Life, A Christmas Carol, White Christmas, Miracle on 34th Street and several of the cartoon, animation specials the kids grew up with. One of animation specials that we love laughing at is the Raisins Christmas. We still enjoy Rudolph and Elf along with a host of others. We listen to the radio, WEWE 97.3 that blares Christmas music for at least a month! The Confers also put up a decorations. I would say ours are rather modest, tasteful and warm. I really like the tree this year! Debi does such a great job with these things. Most years the girls help put up the tree but in 2010 we spent Thanksgiving in Cincy.
Every year is special! I love having the kids and grandsons home! This year Hudson and Dean are joining us for the first time. Needless to say we are fairly excited about them being in Indiana!!! The anticipation for both Mimi and Pap is almost too much to handle! Mimi made the boys stockings. We had fun last weekend hunting (shopping!) for a toy(s). They should have plenty of fun while at our house. I plan on spoiling them big time!
To those who read my blog I hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas! May God bless you with health, good times and spiritual renewal.
We watch the old Christmas classics including Its a Wonderful Life, A Christmas Carol, White Christmas, Miracle on 34th Street and several of the cartoon, animation specials the kids grew up with. One of animation specials that we love laughing at is the Raisins Christmas. We still enjoy Rudolph and Elf along with a host of others. We listen to the radio, WEWE 97.3 that blares Christmas music for at least a month! The Confers also put up a decorations. I would say ours are rather modest, tasteful and warm. I really like the tree this year! Debi does such a great job with these things. Most years the girls help put up the tree but in 2010 we spent Thanksgiving in Cincy.
Every year is special! I love having the kids and grandsons home! This year Hudson and Dean are joining us for the first time. Needless to say we are fairly excited about them being in Indiana!!! The anticipation for both Mimi and Pap is almost too much to handle! Mimi made the boys stockings. We had fun last weekend hunting (shopping!) for a toy(s). They should have plenty of fun while at our house. I plan on spoiling them big time!
To those who read my blog I hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas! May God bless you with health, good times and spiritual renewal.
Saturday, November 13, 2010
# 400
My favorite coach lost today at OSU. Nice try JoePa! I have been meaning to write about last week's victory over Northwestern when Coach Paterno won his 400th game! Incredible! Amazing! I don't always agree with JoePa about his play calling or his choice of starters but to accomplish what he did is almost beyond words!! He has won with class. He was run a successful program since 1966. Coach Paterno not only teaches football but he also instructs his players and fans about how to live. He turns young students into better men. JoePa possesses integrity and character. I admire his courage to keep on coaching even when the critics and boo birds echo their sentiments, "Joe must go!"
Coach Paterno will most likely coach until his health declines or he feels he can no longer do the job. I hope he continues coaching! It his decision and no one else's. He has earned the right to make that call. I know folks who want to see Coach Paterno hang em up! But when he does my guess they will be the ones who complain about the new coach and harken for JoePa to walk the sidelines. I met Coach Paterno while living in Westerville, Ohio. He had recruited Mark Keilmeyer to be a defensive end. He was personable and down-to-earth. It was like talking to one of my neighbors. He even autographed a book of mine and a hat that my daughter Chantelle brought with her to our meeting. What a thrill!
So this is a salute to you, Coach Paterno! You are an example to us. Keep on doing what you love. And thank you for all of the years of coaching and teaching that helped to make our world a better place.
WE ARE PENN STATE!
Coach Paterno will most likely coach until his health declines or he feels he can no longer do the job. I hope he continues coaching! It his decision and no one else's. He has earned the right to make that call. I know folks who want to see Coach Paterno hang em up! But when he does my guess they will be the ones who complain about the new coach and harken for JoePa to walk the sidelines. I met Coach Paterno while living in Westerville, Ohio. He had recruited Mark Keilmeyer to be a defensive end. He was personable and down-to-earth. It was like talking to one of my neighbors. He even autographed a book of mine and a hat that my daughter Chantelle brought with her to our meeting. What a thrill!
So this is a salute to you, Coach Paterno! You are an example to us. Keep on doing what you love. And thank you for all of the years of coaching and teaching that helped to make our world a better place.
WE ARE PENN STATE!
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